How do you identify narcissistic people?
John smith said the best way to find out if a person is truly a narcissist is to politely confront them when they have said or done something nasty to you. Most people will become defensive at first, which is a completely normal reaction. But non-narcissists will eventually see your point, apologise for their behaviour and not repeat the action ever again. A narcissist, however, will not concede. They will stay on the defensive and also turn the tables on you and blame you for doing something that put them in a position to *have* to insult you — they may even expect you to apologise to them for abusing them (since they have severe victim mentalities)
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